May 27, 2025
If you’re going through a divorce and the phrase “Qualified Domestic Relations Order” (QDRO) makes your eyes glaze over, you’re not alone. It sounds like something […]
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April 9, 2025
THE TRIANGLE TRAP Some roles feel strangely satisfying—like putting on your comfiest old hoodie. You slip into them without even realizing it. You’re driving with a […]
November 26, 2024
The most effective way to present the benefits of collaborative divorce to your spouse is through a calm, structured conversation, ideally supported by clear and concise materials. […]
September 26, 2024
Just Say No to Nurturing the Narrative When we don’t talk, we spin a story and nurture a narrative that seems true but might miss the […]
August 29, 2024
“You got the plane?” The instructor asked my 17 year-old grandson, Andrew, as we took off the runway. It was his first time in a small […]
July 24, 2024
It seems so simple. You keep this and I’ll keep that. And honestly, sometimes it feels like lawyers just complicate things more! But you want to […]
January 30, 2024
“Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession; friendship is never anything but sharing.” Elie Wiesel American culture places a […]
January 2, 2024
I worked with a business coach and four other women lawyers for a period, and we were encouraged to list 20 accomplishments for the year. It […]
November 21, 2023
Skilled communication between divorced parents is crucial for children. Why? If you think your kids were good at playing you against each other, just wait until […]