November 26, 2024

Effective Ways to Present the Benefits of Collaborative Divorce

The most effective way to present the benefits of collaborative divorce to your spouse is through a calm, structured conversation, ideally supported by clear and concise materials. […]
November 21, 2023

“Ask Mom for this. Ask Dad for that.” Kids know how to play you!

Skilled communication between divorced parents is crucial for children. Why? If you think your kids were good at playing you against each other, just wait until […]
September 28, 2023

TOP TIPS FOR LIFE THAT TRAVEL HAS TAUGHT ME

  I’m on a road trip from Barcelona to Provence today. It will take about 7 hours so the drive through vineyards and rolling hills has […]
August 28, 2023

IT’S NOT MY FAULT! The Power of Acknowledgment

  “Who managed the tech setup? It really worked well.” I asked Rosanne and Chris that question this morning. The photo above is how they replied! […]
July 30, 2023

Navigating Divorce: The Home Dilemma

Few possessions stir up emotional turbulence more than the home. It’s not just four walls and shelter. For most, it’s also a large investment of money […]
June 29, 2023

Retire the Overwhelm. Be Empowered.

  It’s easy to drown in a sea of choices. The weight of indecision can consume us, leaving us trapped in a swirling whirlpool, gasping for […]
February 20, 2023

“I’m sorry.” But are you though? The Art of the Good Apology

It’s hard to admit a mistake. But we all have the opportunity, don’t we? Regularly! Here are some things to consider if you find it hard […]
March 28, 2022

Take a Look and Use Your Best Brain

You don't want to talk settlement when not at your best. "Fight or flight" mode shuts down the areas of your brain that run your critical thinking operations. Here's a tool to in-the-moment help you know when you're operating from your best brain.
April 29, 2020

Marriage Story Hopefully Won’t Be Your Divorce Story

Marriage Story was nominated for Best Picture at the Oscars this year. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHi-a1n8t7M. If you are considering a divorce, it should be required watching. The depiction of […]