January 2, 2024

Take Inventory: We Accomplish More Than We Think!

I worked with a business coach and four other women lawyers for a period, and we were encouraged to list 20 accomplishments for the year. It […]
November 21, 2023

“Ask Mom for this. Ask Dad for that.” Kids know how to play you!

Skilled communication between divorced parents is crucial for children. Why? If you think your kids were good at playing you against each other, just wait until […]
September 28, 2023

TOP TIPS FOR LIFE THAT TRAVEL HAS TAUGHT ME

  I’m on a road trip from Barcelona to Provence today. It will take about 7 hours so the drive through vineyards and rolling hills has […]
July 30, 2023

Navigating Divorce: The Home Dilemma

Few possessions stir up emotional turbulence more than the home. It’s not just four walls and shelter. For most, it’s also a large investment of money […]
June 29, 2023

Retire the Overwhelm. Be Empowered.

  It’s easy to drown in a sea of choices. The weight of indecision can consume us, leaving us trapped in a swirling whirlpool, gasping for […]
March 20, 2023

CUSTODY: WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO KNOW

It’s a strange term to use for children. We generally speak of people charged with a crime as being “in custody” of the sheriff. Or of […]
March 28, 2022

Take a Look and Use Your Best Brain

You don't want to talk settlement when not at your best. "Fight or flight" mode shuts down the areas of your brain that run your critical thinking operations. Here's a tool to in-the-moment help you know when you're operating from your best brain.