August 28, 2025
At a dinner with friends, one of the guys, says, “My buddy was bragging about going to base camp at Mt. Everest. I mean, brag about […]
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July 29, 2025
When Plan A Doesn’t Work Out What if Plan B isn’t just the backup—but a better way through? I’m a planner, make lists, and schedule things. […]
May 27, 2025
If you’re going through a divorce and the phrase “Qualified Domestic Relations Order” (QDRO) makes your eyes glaze over, you’re not alone. It sounds like something […]
April 9, 2025
THE TRIANGLE TRAP Some roles feel strangely satisfying—like putting on your comfiest old hoodie. You slip into them without even realizing it. You’re driving with a […]
February 11, 2025
The One or The Dozen “I used to hope that you’d bring me flowers. Now I plant my own.” ~Rachel Wolchin I fondly remember in elementary […]
January 29, 2025
Do you want a divorce? What kind of divorce? Should you wear the black or blue shirt? What days do you want to see your children […]
December 27, 2024
They are here again. The holidays bring pleasures and pressures, parties and pounds, presents and prospects for plans for a new year. Perfect time to pause […]
September 26, 2024
Just Say No to Nurturing the Narrative When we don’t talk, we spin a story and nurture a narrative that seems true but might miss the […]
April 23, 2024
How do you start your day? Do you pop up and hit it hard all day? Do you drag yourself out of bed and wait for […]
February 29, 2024
Disclosing a wrong only you know about is scary. You might have to ask for forgiveness but that’s only needed if the wrong is known. When […]
January 2, 2024
I worked with a business coach and four other women lawyers for a period, and we were encouraged to list 20 accomplishments for the year. It […]
November 21, 2023
Skilled communication between divorced parents is crucial for children. Why? If you think your kids were good at playing you against each other, just wait until […]