May 27, 2025
If you’re going through a divorce and the phrase “Qualified Domestic Relations Order” (QDRO) makes your eyes glaze over, you’re not alone. It sounds like something […]
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April 9, 2025
THE TRIANGLE TRAP Some roles feel strangely satisfying—like putting on your comfiest old hoodie. You slip into them without even realizing it. You’re driving with a […]
January 29, 2025
Do you want a divorce? What kind of divorce? Should you wear the black or blue shirt? What days do you want to see your children […]
December 27, 2024
They are here again. The holidays bring pleasures and pressures, parties and pounds, presents and prospects for plans for a new year. Perfect time to pause […]
November 26, 2024
The most effective way to present the benefits of collaborative divorce to your spouse is through a calm, structured conversation, ideally supported by clear and concise materials. […]
September 26, 2024
Just Say No to Nurturing the Narrative When we don’t talk, we spin a story and nurture a narrative that seems true but might miss the […]
August 29, 2024
“You got the plane?” The instructor asked my 17 year-old grandson, Andrew, as we took off the runway. It was his first time in a small […]
July 24, 2024
It seems so simple. You keep this and I’ll keep that. And honestly, sometimes it feels like lawyers just complicate things more! But you want to […]
May 10, 2024
The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry. Robert Burns When we plan every little detail and the unexpected happens, know this: while […]