January 8, 2020
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November 26, 2019
Resiliency or the ability to bounce back can help you survive the "most wonderful time of the year" when the holidays occur during your divorce or custody hearings.
September 30, 2019
Thirty-nine years ago to the day I started writing in an ugly, plain, spiral-bound notebook, I stumbled upon it while cleaning out some papers under my bed. My journal from my […]
February 28, 2019
“I don’t want it all to be pretty–it’s a combination of loss and gain. Things are born, live and hang in limbo. That’s what life’s about…” […]
January 29, 2019
There's power in stepping away from our own mess for a minute.
December 20, 2018
Christmas in the midst of divorce or its recovery is just hard. No denying it. This holiday–which is all about family and traditions–can thrust broken dreams […]
October 30, 2018
Divorce can feel like a public failure. Shame and a sense of being “less than” can develop. But do we have to succumb to that feeling? […]
February 13, 2018
Fear, anxiety, and even panic are natural parts of a divorce or family law matter. But these negative emotions don’t have to be insurmountable obstacles that […]
January 9, 2018
Broken and More Beautiful in the New Year The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. – Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell […]
December 22, 2017
I’m in Idaho with family. Mother. Sister. Stepson, his wife and seven–you read it right–seven children! Uneventful travel, last minute gift orders on Amazon and Dutch […]
September 5, 2017
I grew up in Houston. I instantly speak Texan when I go back and yes, now and then I still listen to country music. My family […]
January 17, 2017
A personal message after the death of my dad Monday, December 19, 2016. Earlier this month, I participated in a presentation addressing, “What to do when your […]







