June 29, 2023

Retire the Overwhelm. Be Empowered.

  It’s easy to drown in a sea of choices. The weight of indecision can consume us, leaving us trapped in a swirling whirlpool, gasping for […]
March 20, 2023

CUSTODY: WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO KNOW

It’s a strange term to use for children. We generally speak of people charged with a crime as being “in custody” of the sheriff. Or of […]
February 20, 2023

“I’m sorry.” But are you though? The Art of the Good Apology

It’s hard to admit a mistake. But we all have the opportunity, don’t we? Regularly! Here are some things to consider if you find it hard […]
January 30, 2023

Not Yet – When Powering Through is NOT the Best Power Move

  There’s a sneaky little way to gain an advantage when life is hard. It’s available to everyone but most of us aren’t harnessing this deceptively […]
March 28, 2022

Take a Look and Use Your Best Brain

You don't want to talk settlement when not at your best. "Fight or flight" mode shuts down the areas of your brain that run your critical thinking operations. Here's a tool to in-the-moment help you know when you're operating from your best brain.
February 21, 2022

Your Child’s Merry Christmas Story (even if you are divorcing)

If you are divorced, or facing separation and divorce this season, I want to suggest that YOU are writing your children's Christmas Story this year. You are helping to shape their memories and impressions of the year they were, 6 or 9 or 12. What will your children's story be?