January 30, 2023
There’s a sneaky little way to gain an advantage when life is hard. It’s available to everyone but most of us aren’t harnessing this deceptively […]
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December 20, 2022
Your children can be happy this Christmas even if you are divorcing. When we hear the words “Christmas Story” most people think of either the birth […]
March 28, 2022
You don't want to talk settlement when not at your best. "Fight or flight" mode shuts down the areas of your brain that run your critical thinking operations. Here's a tool to in-the-moment help you know when you're operating from your best brain.
February 21, 2022
Whether guilt or gratitude prevails when you look back rides on how you choose to do divorce and life afterward.
February 21, 2022
If you are divorced, or facing separation and divorce this season, I want to suggest that YOU are writing your children's Christmas Story this year. You are helping to shape their memories and impressions of the year they were, 6 or 9 or 12. What will your children's story be?
October 26, 2021
"Fail" stands for: Further Attempts In Learning. We all get so many chances to fail, learn and grow. And then repeat. But what does that really look like in scary times.
August 25, 2021
July 27, 2021
New relationships are enticing but will they bring happiness? Not unless you first do your own deep dive into the relationship dynamics of your first marriage, determine why you connected with your spouse and your contribution to the demise of your marriage. Only then are you able to effectively enter into a new relationship.
June 22, 2021
Complex problems require a team. Divorce is complex. We are all susceptible to overestimating our abilities–and underestimating the abilities of others. Think about whether you want […]