February 20, 2023

“I’m sorry.” But are you though? The Art of the Good Apology

It’s hard to admit a mistake. But we all have the opportunity, don’t we? Regularly! Here are some things to consider if you find it hard […]
March 28, 2022

Take a Look and Use Your Best Brain

You don't want to talk settlement when not at your best. "Fight or flight" mode shuts down the areas of your brain that run your critical thinking operations. Here's a tool to in-the-moment help you know when you're operating from your best brain.
April 29, 2020

Marriage Story Hopefully Won’t Be Your Divorce Story

Marriage Story was nominated for Best Picture at the Oscars this year. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHi-a1n8t7M. If you are considering a divorce, it should be required watching. The depiction of […]
March 19, 2019

NO MORE “SPOUSE vs SPOUSE” IN MICHIGAN

Currently, when you file for divorce in Michigan, the case title in the Complaint for Divorce reads, “JOHN SMITH, Plaintiff vs. JANE SMITH, Defendant.”  Versus. A […]
March 31, 2018

Crisis Decisions: A Clinical Psychologist’s Perspective

Understanding how you personally make decisions can be essential when in the midst of life-changing events, like divorce. Today’s guest post by John M. Berecz, Ph.D., […]
October 31, 2017

Be Afraid. Fail Spectacularly

It’s Halloween. We should be well and truly afraid today–of the dark and witches and sugar overload! On a transatlantic flight last month, I watched the […]