April 29, 2020

Marriage Story Hopefully Won’t Be Your Divorce Story

Marriage Story was nominated for Best Picture at the Oscars this year. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHi-a1n8t7M. If you are considering a divorce, it should be required watching. The depiction of […]
March 31, 2020

First 5s—Tips to Immunize your Marriage Against Coronavirus

COVID-19 has already resulted in numerous causalities. Even the best of marriages can be strained by social isolation and 24/7 togetherness. Those which previously experienced symptoms […]
March 19, 2019

NO MORE “SPOUSE vs SPOUSE” IN MICHIGAN

Currently, when you file for divorce in Michigan, the case title in the Complaint for Divorce reads, “JOHN SMITH, Plaintiff vs. JANE SMITH, Defendant.”  Versus. A […]
February 13, 2018

Your Flight is Now Boarding: Handling Panic in Family Law and Divorce

Fear, anxiety, and even panic are natural parts of a divorce or family law matter. But these negative emotions don’t have to be insurmountable obstacles that […]
January 9, 2018

Broken and More Beautiful in the New Year

Broken and More Beautiful in the New Year The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. – Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell […]
October 31, 2017

Be Afraid. Fail Spectacularly

It’s Halloween. We should be well and truly afraid today–of the dark and witches and sugar overload! On a transatlantic flight last month, I watched the […]
August 30, 2016

Is life really that precious?

I ended a mediation session this past week and one of the soon-to-be-former spouses said, “I just don’t want to live. There’s nothing to live for. […]
April 29, 2015

Get Angry. (I know…not my usual message)

We’ve been taught that anger is bad. We should be kind to all, get along, and work for peace. But some things are worth getting angry […]