Now What?

Instead of the life you planned, you have parallel lives occasionally interrupted by irritations, long discussions that go nowhere, angry words and hurt feelings. The kids feel it. And you are exhausted by the effort or maintaining pretenses with families and friends. You still wonder if you should stay at it a little longer…but it might be too late.

Now what?

So many questions flood your mind. You want to be smart and conserve resources that will be needed for one of you to move out. You don’t want to lawyer-up and go to war. But if you just get the forms and work it out over coffee, are you missing something?

We are divorce lawyers who at one time have asked ourselves all these questions. We have personally felt the fear that divorce creates. And now, as divorce lawyers, we see people create unnecessary warfare with their husbands and wives. We also see people cut corners to save costs only to spend thousands more a few years down the road to cure mistakes they didn’t know they were making.

The good news is you have options. You don’t have to just buy what a particular lawyer or website is selling. Know this: each of the options available is The Right Fit for someone. But each is also The Wrong Fit for someone else. Invest the time to understand the options and choose the best fit for you and your family. Download my free e-book on Where Do I Start When Faced With a Divorce here.